Can I ask an incarcerated cousin?........?

if he s man in jail? He was something like a rapist b4 he went at the age of 13 now we r 24. anyway, we(the family) heard he startd a gang in jail and he'd beat up one of the guards and got even more time hence 7 yrs plus xtra counting from age 13. i know he d these 2 girls and he went to jail( we were like 10 or 11) so its not like it will hurt his feelings he killed alot of animals too. should i ask? i dont kno when hes getting out but im dying to know b/c its something he would do. if u ever watch that show Lockup or Lockdown whatever one it is they sleep with the men and still maintain their manliness they just take it. its really scary when they talk about it on that show. hes in prison by the way. and i always ask questions erbody wants to know and as my cousin he knows this sooo..... whats ur take on this?